Not sure if any of you are aware, but petloss.com has a very active chat room with a lot of regulars and they have a ceremony with candle-lighting every monday evening at 10pm EST. Its actually a nice ceremony and theres a lot of people in attendance. I attended tonight to celebrate a dog that a friend lost this week after many years. I liked it. It may help a lot of you, and there's always caring people to chat most of the time. Monday nights are the busiest. Its an option to consider if you're grieving.
www.petloss.com (Scroll down to the pet chat, its listed below the msg boards)