Worst funeral ever....

Yesterday my friend Dani buried her 4 year old daughter. Everyone is devastated and beyond grief. It was a terrible accident and by posting this I am hoping that any one who has children around may take some time to look around their house and be sure everything is safe. I have went over my own house a bazillion times looking for hazards in the last few days. Casandra (the little girl) was given permission to watch tv in Dani's room, as her brother, sister and Grandparents were watching a show that didn't interest her in the living room. Evidentally she was laying on the floor with her feet on the tv stand rocking it when the 27" tv fell down on top of her. Casandra died from massive head trauma. Dani is not doing well at all and I am worried about her....I find myself unable to find any words that my give any comfort. What can you say to someone who has lost such a huge part of their heart? *sigh* Some things just don't make sense... Could y'all please keep Dani and her family in your thoughts and prayers?